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A is for Attitude
An extract from The ABC of Healing by Celeste Louw - let's talk attitude and healing. One of the biggest stumbling blocks to healing is...
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Mar 18, 20242 min read


Give up the Guilt for Gratitude
Having something that someone else needs or desires may result in a combination of confusing emotions.
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Mar 6, 20245 min read


We are not all the same!
If there is one thing we should learn as soon as possible, it is that no one is universally liked or understood.
We are different.
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Feb 12, 20241 min read


Charity?
Showing people the underbelly of human behaviour is not a popular task, but an essential one if we are ever to lower the occurrences.
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Feb 8, 20243 min read
Contemplations
I wrote this piece 4 years ago. How sad so little has changed, only now I see more gendered memes that raise one gender to a higher standard
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Dec 31, 20231 min read


The Law is not Morality
The law is not morality!
When we are talking intimate, social crimes this is one of the hardest things for survivors to understand.
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Dec 8, 20232 min read


Be True to You
You are the one you have to live with.
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Dec 7, 20231 min read


Coercion. Manipulation. Exploitation.
The question is, what are we evolving into?
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Nov 29, 20231 min read


Power, Control and Helping Others.
Empower not Enslave
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Nov 24, 20232 min read


FAIR?
Remember where you end and they begin.
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Nov 21, 20231 min read


My2Cents on Cycle Breaking
We can talk about all those things cyclically, handing them down from generation to generation building resentment, fear, hatred...
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Apr 18, 20231 min read


My2Cents on Healing
It is easy to just agree with what everyone is saying and doing. It is much harder to blaze your own trail.
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Apr 11, 20231 min read


January 2023 Update
OptiMysed Shenanigans January 2023
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Feb 11, 20238 min read


OptiMysed News Vol. 1 2022
Everybody dies, but not everyone truly lives. One Life. Live It! Connected Humanity - It's the OptiMyst Way Optimysed Healing OptiMysed...
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Feb 4, 20223 min read


Verhale van Hoop en Geneesing (Vol. 1)
Op die ouderdom van 15 was ek die nuwe kind in die skool. Ek het die meeste van die kinders geken. Maar was nie deel van die groep nie,...
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Jun 16, 20214 min read


Survivor Stories of Hope and Healing (Vol. 1)
At the age of 15, I was the new kid in school. I knew most of the kids, but was not included in the different friendship groups because I...
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Jun 16, 20214 min read


Rise!
You are entitled to healing, joy and peace.
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Feb 6, 20212 min read


Impossible Possibility not Toxic Positivity
Believe in impossible possibilities.
Believe in the indomitable spirit of humanity.
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Feb 1, 20213 min read


I am not "Strong" I am Journeying
Sometimes we look at people and think they are stronger than us and we could never have that strength, but it isn't true.
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Dec 9, 20201 min read


Healing is for Everyone
Healing isn't only for me - or for the "strong". It's for every victim and every survivor - if they really want it!
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Nov 10, 20202 min read
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